This week’s DCSD Blogs prompt was to talk about a mistake I made this week. I have been chewing on it all week. I automatically thought that my post would be similar to this one I wrote a few years ago; instead, the world turned my head differently.
I poked my head to into #BMoreedchat on Wednesday and followed a conversation about mistakes and the types of mistakes. (Thanks for the invite Jon Harper.) This article clearly explains the four types including stretch and sloppy mistakes. The first thing I realized that I treat every mistake as a high-stakes mistake when in reality my mistakes fall all over the board. When I treat every mistake the same, I don’t give myself the opportunity to learn from all mistakes. If you have been a faithful reader of mine, you probably can imagine my response if every mistake is high-stakes.
During the next few weeks, I am going to try this response to my mistakes. First, take a deep breath and then categorize the mistake. If I make a stretch mistake or Aha-moment mistake, I will work on celebrating and learning from them. If not, I will not panic, and I will work more on being intentional. I will be realistic about how many mistakes are really high-stakes. I cannot be the risk taker I want to be if I cannot correctly categorize my missteps. Also, do I want others to treat all of their mistakes the same? I need to help model these skills for others including my own children.